Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Christmas thoughts and preparations

Did you know there are only 6 weeks 'til Christmas? If you didn't, do I have you a bit stressed now;-) I often wonder how it sneaks up on us the way it does each year. Well, it really doesn't sneak up on us does it? It's the same day on the calendar each and every year.  Yet, we can all become a bit harried when December hits. We feel time is running out. But, time for what exactly?  Hitting the stores, getting the best deals and waiting in long, tiresome lines to obtain our "treasures".  Geez, I have a bit of a headache thinking about it!

I was at a friends over the weekend and she was going through the sale circulars. She is a "black Friday" shopper. I have never experienced one in my whole lifetime, I think it would induce a  full blown panic attack if I subjected myself to one.  Her sister was with us and we were discussing the economy and the lack of funds for Christmas shopping--anyone relate to this?  Both ladies said something that struck me.  They said black Friday lets them get the best deals on alot of toys that later they can just throw away. Yikes!!!  My immediate response was "what about our environment"?! Blank stares met my protestations.  No answer.  I suspect more people than not think this way. Sad, sad, sad.

I firmly believe less is really more with toys.  Toys that foster imagination, are made of natural materials, and yes, handmade if possible are really the ones that here, have seen the most play and have stood the test of time. Now, I am not in anyway saying don't EVAH buy plastic or electronics, we do, but we are super careful about our choices and we inform our children about why we feel and think this way.  Also, for me I try to keep the focus on Christ and the years I fail miserably at keeping Christ the focus or our celebration I feel defeated.  This year I really am purposing with some fun activities to keep our Saviour the center of Christmas. 

I will be sharing some of the places I buy our toys and some of my handmade gifts here. I will also share some of the ways I will have our family focus on Christ this holiday season. Maybe it will be an encouragement to you and yours or you will  pluck and idea or two from these thoughts.

What I would like to start off with is a little system I used last year.  I found it tremendously helpful and it kept me focused an organized. It is called Organized Christmas and all the pages are free (!) and downloadable. You can customize the pages to fit your lifestyle, beliefs, and what you feel most important to you this season.  Start off with doing a bit of pre-planning. Talk to your husband about how you want the holiday to flow , your goals and values tied to Christmas. Put them on paper and share this with your children. Most of all, don't stress! It can be a Christ-focused time of year for you and yours with all the fun and holiday memory making tied up real pretty!

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19 comments:

  1. Thanks for sharing... It is interesting how my kids would rather play with boxes vs. 'real' toys!

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  2. Because of the growth of our extended family, and too many "greats" to count, both sides have agreed to only give to their immediate family. I am hosting family dinners and we will do the same holiday home visits we do each year. It has been friendly on the budget and a lot less stressful. I agree that we need to downsize the gift giving and make each gift thoughtful and something to be treasured.

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  3. Dear Suzanne,
    Thank you as always for a great post.
    Love the upcoming series and look forward to reading them
    God Bless
    Gae

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  4. What a great idea! I have friends who "thrift" for their children. They have tons of little bitty tinee tiney plastic things all over the place. However, the Mister and I give things that 1) have no batteries; 2) require interaction; and 3) demand imagination.

    There is a great store down near Asheville that only has these kinds of toys. If I can find the name, I will send you the link!

    Thanks for taking a lead in getting our priorities on Him and not Us!

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  5. Matty, if you find the link post it here. Thanks for helping!

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  6. I am so deep into Thanksgiving that I can't even think about Christmas. In some ways I am grateful. My children have hit a nice transition where they love receiving clothing--and I am able to purchase things they really need as gifts. So nice!

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  7. I can relate to that Sarah. Anytime the kids ask for clothing that they need I am elated...LOL!

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  8. I am excited to see this Suzanne.
    Thank you for sharing.
    Warm wishes,
    Tonya

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  9. Hi, Suzanne - I'm excited to follow along with this series. While my Handsome and I don't have children yet, I do have many siblings, along with a few nieces and nephews. Coming from a large family, we've decided to do a "mostly home-made/regifted" Christmas this year. Items will be meaningful and made with love. I suppose, though, that another kind of stress exists in trying to get all those things made. Anywho.... that's what we're doing to try to make Christmas less about the commercial and more about family and giving of our God-given talents, using the gifts He gave us as gifts for others.

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  10. I totally agree about the toys - Scout had his share of toys - none were thrown away - but some found new homes as they weren't played with in ours - but his favorite toys were either outside things - balls/bats/nets etc. or building toys including his Thomas Train track - he spent countless hours designing and building his log houses and train sets...

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  11. We just sat down as a family last night to talk about Christmas. We are keeping it very simple this year, as times are tough. I will be making most of their gifts and only purchasing a few special items. We are very blessed to have children that know that Christ is the real reason for the season and are very understanding!

    Blessings!
    ~Nadine

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  12. Horrendous isn't it. I hate the way Christmas has become. People here in the UK rent huge bins over the holidays to hold all their festive throw-outs which include last years toys and this years gifts if they break or aren't well received. I'm afraid we never throw anything away in our family and all our toys and games have remained as well loved as the day they were received. I love the idea that a great many kids get more pleasure playing with the box and packaging than the actual toy (that speaks volumes doesn't it?)

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  13. I so love your postings..
    And must say that I agree and look forward to the next ones..
    Growing up we were very poor.. I just did not realize it as our parents knew how to make every event special within their means.. Christmas was about Christ and family.. We certainly received a few gifts that we had longed for but the day was about so much more..
    There are so many ways to make memories...
    God bless...

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  14. i'll just say their ideas don't fall in line with mine :)
    i too love organized christmas (and all the other printables they have!)

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  15. I'm with you on the angst I'd feel IF I braved the crowds for the "deals." What are "deals" when they're just tossed into the trash and sent to our already jammed landfills.

    Yes, I WILL identify bird calls. My last book Toad Cottages & Shooting Stars has a section and illustrations with "Bird Words." This book will also have something else unique that will be packaged with it, but right now it is a secret.

    Thanks for your visit dear,

    Sharon Lovejoy Writes from Sunflower House and a Little Green Island

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  16. Sharon, my daughter Lydia and I have enjoyed your last book:-) And I am a grandma too--well a Nonni (Italian).

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  17. I don't think I've ever done a 'black friday' either. Just the thought of finding a parking space alone freaks me out! LOL. xo xo

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  18. Since my children have started having families of their own, I find Christmas so stressful!!! It was so much simpler with sharing Christmas with just my six kids. Now, the inlaw children either don't want to participate or draw names. I have a hard time buying for one and no one else and then be expected to buy for each of 10 grandchildren too...I would so love to have this solved....as a Christian in is terrible to say I hate the season now; the expectations of my DILs I guess is where I stress the most.

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  19. Dear freeindeed,
    Your not alone in this, I have had to deal with some of it and have heard it from too many others. I will be addressing some of these issues in the planning posts.
    Peace,
    Suzanne

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